... i  accepted  reality...

Though many of us are very ready to grow up, mature and do the things that we dream about, it is important to grasp the concept that not everyone around us will be ready to go along with the changes we feel that we must make in our life. Never let the people who aren't ready for going the places that we are going stop us and eventually drag us back in a place they may want us to be happy.

Understand that we aren't going to always be happy about leaving behind people in our life that aren't willing to change, but leaving behind friends and family who drag or slow us down, will only help bless us, so that we may be better able to help bless them later. remember that without change in our life, we leave no chance for ourselves to grow, and if we are no longer growing, in actuality we are doing nothing more than dying faster.

We aren't made to agree perfectly with everyone that we come into contact with, and at the same time we aren't meant to grow alone. There are many different people that we may come in contact with in our lifetime that will stay in our lives for different seasons. Generally we can categorize the people that enter our lives in one or two ways. We can put people in the category of people in our lives who helps to build us up, and we can make another category of people we allow to stay in our lives that only tear us down.

Remember the people who were in our life when it was the most difficult. Remember the ones who pushed us harder when we thought we were finished, and hold those people dear. As far as the others, remember to love them, but remember that sometimes love is best with certain people when it is done at a distance.